Recently, someone slightly reminded me I am an adult. I think I needed to hear that in order to recognize that some of my actions and behaviors are rather immature. It also made me reflect on what it kind of means to be an adult in a relationship. This year or last year, I read a book talking about being an adult in relationships and it had me regularly processing how I need to heal from some things that happened in my childhood in order to move forward as an adult and build healthier relationships. I can’t just expect for change to happen overnight if I don’t put in the hard work to heal and reveal to myself my past hurts and pains.